Author: brian coates

BLAME

BLAME

Jan 29, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “We cannot reach the level of spiritual growth that we are seeking by blaming sick people.” BRB p. 158 “The hard truth about alcoholism and family dysfunction is that there is no one to blame. It may feel as if our parents caused our suffering, but we…

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BURIED FEELINGS

BURIED FEELINGS

Jan 28, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “We learned to keep our feelings down as children and kept them buried as adults.” BRB p. 589 “How can we honor our feelings when many of us were brought up by parents who implied or directly told us that we shouldn’t talk about, think about, our…

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OVERLY RESPONSIBLE

OVERLY RESPONSIBLE

Jan 27, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Before finding recovery, we suppressed our feelings and were overly responsible. We tried to anticipate the needs of others and meet those needs so we would not he abandoned.” BRB p. 94 Many of us have focused all our efforts on spouses, significant others, or children, trying…

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SPONSORSHIP

SPONSORSHIP

Jan 26, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Sponsorship is the vehicle by which we take the road less traveled to a true connection with others and a God of our understanding.” BRB p. 368 Coming from a family of dysfunction, we developed a fear of authority.  We learned early that our opinions, feelings, and…

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