Author: brian coates

IDENTITY

IDENTITY

Feb 2 from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader In childhood our identity is formed by the reflection we see in the eyes of the people around us.” BRB p. 84 “Who were our mirrors? It was the people who told us in words and actions how unwanted, bothersome, or stupid we were. We tried to…

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GRATITUDE

GRATITUDE

Feb 1, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “The ACA program has brought me the miracle of life. I am able to experience compassion, forgiveness, love, and gratitude, the emotions that make my life worth living.” BRB p.140 Before ACA, many of us were so mired in our dysfunctions that if someone asked us how…

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OTHER LAUNDRY LIST

OTHER LAUNDRY LIST

Jan 31, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Before we write in greater detail about the original Laundry List, we must note that most of the 14 Traits have an opposite. Our experience shows that the opposites are just as damaging as the counterpart.”BRBp.8 Overcoming our denial of family dysfunction was easier when we took…

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TRADITION ONE

TRADITION ONE

Jan 30, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Can we even have personal recovery without ACA unity?’ Our First Tradition frankly says ‘No.’ ACA members working the Twelve Steps recognize the need to place the group’s survival ahead of their own selfish needs or their fear-based urge to control others.” BRB p. 492 Our feelings…

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