Author: brian coates

CRITICAL INNER VOICE

CRITICAL INNER VOICE

April 16, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “We can secretly tell ourselves that we cannot recover, or we cannot experience the benefits of the Steps. This is the subtle but critical inner voice, attempting to disqualify us from recovery.” BRB p.49 “We have all heard it said that humans, by nature, are creatures of…

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PROMISE FOUR

PROMISE FOUR

April 15, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Our ability to share intimacy will grow inside us.” BRB p. 591 “One casualty of our dysfunctional families was our ability to share intimacy. In our oftentimes dangerous families, intimacy led to vulnerability, which became an open invitation to be hurt and hurt again. We learned to…

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HIGHER POWER

HIGHER POWER

April 14, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “…many of us are uncomfortable with the word ‘God’ and can recoil at the word’s mention…. These members often find relief in the thought that G-0-D could stand for ‘good, orderly direction.’” BRB p. 78 “Many of us were harmed as children in the name of religion…

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RELATIONSHIP ANOREXIA

RELATIONSHIP ANOREXIA

April 13, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader ”Many lost children practice ‘relationship anorexia.’” BRBp.135 “Adult children learn a lot of things growing up in a dysfunctional home. Unfortunately, one of the primary things we learned was not to trust. We learned to place a wall around us for protection from pain. This wall follows…

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