Author: brian coates

LETTING GO

LETTING GO

May 14, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Recovery is not about perfection. It is in the becoming that we experience the promises of recovery.” BRB p. xxiv “Some of us thought we had to figure out how to work the ACA program perfectly. We grew up in homes where that was the norm, and…

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SENSE OF PURPOSE

SENSE OF PURPOSE

May 13, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader Sense of Purpose “Our experience shows that the Steps are a proven way of life, yielding new meaning and a sense of purpose in one’s life.” BRB p.95 Did we save a life today? Did we smile or have a kind word for a stranger? We might…

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RESPONDING WITH LOVE

RESPONDING WITH LOVE

May 12, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “By taking the action of responding to one another with love, we simultaneously allow ourselves to give and be given to in a way that heals the wounds of our childhood and meets our simple human requirements for attention, love, and respect.”  BRB p. 363 Taking action…

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CHANGE

CHANGE

May 11, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “The more I change, the more I get these little hints from people around me to go back to my prior behavior, because that’s when they felt safe with me.” BRB p. 411 As we started to break out of our old patterns, others became unhappy with…

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