Author: brian coates

SERVICE

SERVICE

May 18, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader Service “Meanwhile, those who are spiritually awake accept Twelve Step work with an attitude of service rather than sacrifice. By the time we reach this Step, we know the difference between being a rescuer and giving service with love.” BRB p. 289 “Placing the Solution and Problem…

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AUTHORITY FIGURES

AUTHORITY FIGURES

May 17, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “We realize that life today really is different than when we were children without a voice.” BRB p. 73 “The authority figures we grew up with were scary.  They got angry when anyone questioned or challenged them. There didn’t seem to be any logic to it, so…

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DISSOCIATION

DISSOCIATION

May 16, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Because we shut out our parents when we were children, we tend to shut out people as adults.” BRB p. 187 Surviving childhood in a dysfunctional household required many of us to use a number of coping mechanisms to maintain any semblance of sanity.  One was our…

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PROMISE FIVE

PROMISE FIVE

May 15, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “As we face our abandonment issues, we will be attracted by strengths and become more tolerant of weaknesses.” BRB p. 591 Being left without a means of finding our way back is the essence of our abandonment. As a child in an alcoholic or dysfunctional family, we…

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