Author: brian coates

ASKING FOR HELP

ASKING FOR HELP

July 2, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “At this juncture, the adult child usually isolates or becomes involved in busy work to avoid asking for help.” BRB p. 66 “We took care of everyone else for years, learning to be as invisible as possible, both physically and emotionally. Our worth was not based on…

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APPLYING THE PROGRAM

APPLYING THE PROGRAM

July 1, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “ACA is a proven program that can help us in every area of our lives if we apply it.” BRB p. 415 “As we enter theaters and sport stadiums, we are offered a program. If we attend a conference, we will likely check the program they give…

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NOT ALONE

NOT ALONE

June 30, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “On our journey, we need the assistance of a trusted friend with knowledge of recovery.”BRBp.379 “The ACA Big Red Book tells us we’re trained with 72 seasons (18 years) of learned survival skills that turned into dysfunctional behavior as adults. Knowing this makes it seem unreasonable to…

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TRADITION SIX

TRADITION SIX

June 29, from “Strengthening My Recovery” daily reader “Tradition Six keeps ACA free of outside influences and reminds us not to lend the ACA name to any related facility or outside enterprise. By following this Tradition we also avoid money and prestige issues that would hinder our primary purpose.” BRB p.521 “Our program cannot be…

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